Monday, November 10, 2008

What to do...what to do...

So a couple of my good friends had got me thinking that I should still have a wedding. Just something more intimate...wedding then cake afterwards. Because there are the "what ifs" with my dad. What if after starting chemo he never feels good enough to walk me down that aisle...what if..well you know.

I am torn...I want to but the funds are not looking hot lately. I know I have most of what I need but there are still things that cost alot. On another note...last night I did find out that my sister will probably be staying out here longer thru the holidays and I am so freaking HAPPY!!!!!! So maybe I can do the wedding in early December or something. Although that would prolly mean no gifts this year..lol

So I guess I will be pondering this for a while now. UGH!

5 comments:

Italy said...

I think you should go with your heart... you really don't have to spend a lot on a wedding for it to be great. Cake and punch weddings mean just as much as extravagant affairs.

Stevie said...

Big Hugs girl! I can't imagine having all this on your plate. I think that is a great idea to go ahead and do something special.. As long as you have everyone there who you love it will be perfect!

Jenifer said...

I just read through this. Sorry. I wasn't trying to say the same things you've already thought through when I talk to you last night.

xx HUGS xx

I'm sorry you're having to deal with all this, Michelle. I really hope it all works out. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Becca said...

You know how I feel about this! LOL! Wish I could help you out some!

Erika said...

I say have a sm wedding and save some $ :)

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